Lessons…the struggles, sorrow, strides and strength you succumb to that are all vital pieces needed for growth. My most teachable moment was when I decided to divorce my ex-husband. I gained a new perspective and appreciation for providers, husbands, fathers and bread-winners. Most times that position is a thankless one with standards that are expected of others but not a requirement from the one expecting this perfect behavior or routine. My wiser eyes have taught me to not engage in winless battle attempts to perfect imperfections.